Thursday, February 14, 2013

Grandpa and old-age homes




“I would have loved to join you but I must stay at home with nimisha,- my grand daughter. Her mom-dad have important presentations this weekend. ” Joshi Ajoba(grandpa) express his unavailability to join us to a Konkan trip.
“I am missing your special songs, let me know when can I attend your special Mehafil?” Joshi ajoba’s sweet songs are my favorite childhood treasure.
“I haven’t practiced singing since long time. I am so busy with Nimisha’s school, classes, other activities that I’ve almost lost my touch” he replied.
“Nimisha’s parents came late almost everyday. Sometime I even prepare dinner and my son and daughter in law came so tired that they directly go to the bed. They are so busy with their careers that many a times we don’t even converse for weeks.”  He continued.
“But I am glad that at least I stay with my children. Look at Mr Patil! He his children are settled at America. Poor fellow is staying alone at old age home!” Joshi Ajoba expressed his gratitude for old friend.
Few days later, I was waiting outside a guitar class to pick my friend up. I was shocked to see Patil Ajoba coming out of the guitar class. My shock turned into surprise when I noticed his new get up. Trendy short shirt and shorts with latest shoes and guitar in hand, he was looking like ‘yo-grandpa!’ he threw a nice smile to and asked me “whats up dude?”
 “nice to see you after such a long time. It is even nicer to see you so happy!”I said.
 “You know, my life was totally ruined after demise of my wife. I tried to settle at US with my children but I can’t stay away from my city, my friends! ”  
 “The only thing I picked up from America is how to enjoy life after retirement. Now I stay at old-age home where I’ve lots of good friends. We go to picnic together, attend concerts and even attend spiritual programs together.
“How come you joined Guitar classes?” I could not hide my surprise anymore. “Why grandpa can’t play guitar?” he threw the ball in my court. “Its not like that but…” I had no words to express.
“Even though I can’t stay with my grandchildren, I love them, miss them a lot!” he replied “I am a rock-star for my children. Not only my grandchildren but even their friends love this cool grandpa!”
“I update myself with latest corporate affairs and thus, even my son and daughter in law love talking to me. They share their problems, even seek for my advices. “
“Yes, sometimes I miss my wife. Sometimes I feel the distance between me and my family. Yet I am quite happy with my life today!” he started his bike and left for special old age party with diet food!